Harmony in relationships comes from having deep self-love for self and a harmonious relationship with oneself.
And then a harmonious relationship with the other in your own imagination.
There are the 2 most high-leverage points you can control. Take great care of them!
Another way of looking at this is through the lens of God.
God is in all. To love something is to recognize God.
So recognize God in yourself and the other in your imagination.
Use this meditation to encourage harmony in your subconscious and remove dramas from your life:
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